Our Adoption Journey to LOA!!!

by Emily on May 21, 2013

If you’re not familiar with International adoption, you probably have no idea what “LOA” means, or how exciting it is!  LOA stands for “Letter of Acceptance” and is the official letter from China granting permission to adopt a specific child.  And we just got ours!!!  This is a very important step in our adoption process and means we will likely be traveling to China to bring our daughter home in about 10-12 weeks!  Yay!

China ultrasound imageOur journey to this point began many years ago, in early 2007.  My husband and I had been married for about 6 months and were discussing starting a family.  We researched International adoption and decided ideally our family would be a blend of adopted and biological children. We debated which to do first, but for us getting pregnant was faster, and we were very lucky to welcome our two incredible snerds in 2008 and 2009.

In May of 2011 we submitted our application to an adoption agency in Pennsylvania called Pearl S. Buck International to adopt a baby from Korea.  We were warned that International adoption can be a rocky road, but we had no idea.  Long story short, 2 years later we are bringing home a baby through China’s Special Needs program using an agency in Colorado called AAC Adoptions.  (Yes, during our process we switched countries –because Korea is closing International adoptions– and agencies — because our daughter was only available through AAC Adoptions so we switched agencies to pursue her.)

walking-001Our daughter (pictured right) was born in Nanchang, China, in February 2012.  She has a rare and serious heart condition that was repaired in China shortly after her birth, and is presumably otherwise healthy.  We are so excited to bring her home.  Our 3-year old asks daily when we are going to China, and every morning when I ask her what she dreamed about the answer is “my baby sister”.

At this point, post-LOA, we have several more steps, including applying to the US Department of Immigration for her to become a US citizen, obtaining our Chinese visas, scheduling a consulate appointment in China, and then waiting for China to give us “Travel Approval”, which means we can come get her!!  We would love to travel in late July, but will probably be August, if all goes smoothly from here.

Stay tuned to follow our journey!

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I have always been impressed with Angelina Jolie. She is one of the few celebrities who I feel uses her status to make a real difference in the world– frequently to the poorest, most desperate populations largely overlooked by Americans.  And she does so with six beautiful, multiracial children in tow, surely learning amazing lessons on world cultures and philanthropy–not to mention her partner, my celebrity-lust-object, Brad Pitt.  Oh yeah, and she makes mega-successful movies.

Yesterday her do-gooding turned closer to home, with a New York Times op-ed article sharing her story of  undergoing a preventive double mastectomy after learning she carries BRCA1, the “breast cancer gene”.  According to Angelina Jolie, her doctor’s gave her an 87% chance of developing breast cancer, which is now reduced to less than 5%.  She bravely shared her story in hopes of educating other women so they “will know that they have strong options.”

I’ve wondered about this scary gene, if I should be tested for it, and what difference it would make if I was.  Now I have a role model for what is possible if faced with a scary prognosis.

Unfortunately, as Angelina Jolie points out, the genetic test to identify BRCA1 costs approximately $3,000, putting it out of reach for most women, and highlighting the glaring difference between her and the rest of us.  Although it wouldn’t surprise me if Angelina Jolie sinks her teeth into making the gene test more accessible after her experience.  Even if she doesn’t, education is the first step of change, and she’s taken that step, for all of us.

I’m sure everyone wants to know what her breasts look like now, post-surgery and reconstruction.  Maybe she’ll star in a racy movie soon and we’ll all get a glimpse.  But I’m sure they’re spectacular, just like the rest of her.

Read her Op-Ed in The New York Times here.

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